You know that I didn’t want the measly $400 trade-in the dealership offered me. I also didn’t want to go through the hassle of selling my used car. But I was sure that selling my used car on my own would be worth the time and effort. Here’s how it actually went down: The car sat in our driveway for at least 3 months. Why? I told myself that I didn’t have time for several things. But these excuses were so lame, because none of these tasks actually took a lot of time or took place in the Read more […]
Your brain plays many tricks on you when you’re shopping. One that I almost fell victim to when I was buying our newest (used) car was this one: As the amount of money you’re spending increases, you are less likely to save money in little ways. In my case, I bought a $19,900 minivan. I had negotiated the price down from somewhere around $23,000. It was worth an hour of my time to do the bartering that resulted in paying $3,000 less. Heck, most of that hour was consumed by getting the price from Read more […]
I was laid off last week. Again.
I wish I had some insight or tips to share, but I don't. I'm just hustling. I have had my nose to the grindstone, trying to get all my ducks in a row. Today is the first day that I don't have an appointment or urgent business to take care of.
Here's how I spent my first week after being laid off:
Monday: I volunteered at a local nonprofit where I would like to work. I met another attorney for coffee (networking!).
Tuesday: I registered for unemployment Read more [...]
“Everything is suffering.” I promise I’m not going to get morbid on you, but this is a Buddhist concept (completely oversimplified, for my purposes, here). In the Buddhist tradition, samsara refers to the endless cycle of death and rebirth, which is laden with suffering. Until you escape the cycle and reach Nirvana. I’m not a pessimistic person, but I wholeheartedly believe that almost everything is suffering. Think about the happiest thing that you can, and you will find that there it Read more […]
This is my confession for the day: I paid full price for underwear, for my kindergartner, last week.
Planning is the foundation of frugality. I have been writing a Frugal Manifesto in my mind, and planning is always #1 on the list. Spontaneity is the enemy of the frugal. So, when fate found me at the mall, and my son wearing his last pair of clean undies, and I popped in to a children's clothing store to see what undies they had on sale or on clearance, and found that there were none ... and Read more [...]
I have heard that “renting is like throwing away your money.” I have heard it a lot. In fact, I even used to say it! Until 2008, when house prices fell for the first time in my lifetime. The truth is, that line is more marketing ploy than truth when you actually crunch the numbers. We are closing the books on our twelfth month in our new-to-us home, and trust me: There is plenty of money we have thrown away. Don’t get me wrong: We are even more in love with our house now than we Read more […]
A lot has happened since my last net worth check-in. Un-Anticipated Expenses: A $1,300 snowblower that costs more than one of our cars. $70 of food spoiled after losing power for 36 hours. $700 generator to prevent pipes from freezing, but was returned when the power came on 10 minutes after we got it home. $625 for six months of pre-paid piano lessons for Little Stapler. $135 keyboard for Little Stapler to practice piano. (We will buy a piano if he sticks with his lessons and practicing) That’s Read more […]
I have learned a few things after using the cash envelope system for a month. Not the least of which is how difficult it is to stay squarely within a budget! Although I tried The Envelope System last summer, the lessons I learned have stayed with me. Now that we are flush with some cash in our bank accounts, I wonder whether I should try using cash again, but reconsidered. Here’s why … Cash is Not King Despite my idealistic efforts to have no exceptions to our “cash only” policy, there Read more […]
I don’t have expensive tastes, but I do enjoy high quality, beautiful jewelry. Over the years, I have acquired several gemstone, pearl, and amber pendants and earrings. But you wouldn’t know it if you looked at me recently. I have been in a jewelry rut. Most days, I don’t wear any jewelry because I don’t think of putting any on, don’t think I have any to match my clothes, or don’t have time. Well, wouldn’t you know … Mr. Stapler got me a beautiful gemstone necklace for my birthday. It Read more […]
I know you hate paying your cable bill. Maybe you’ve put it on autopay so you don’t have to think about it, or maybe you grudgingly set up your online bill pay each month. Either way, you’re not alone. More and more people are “cutting the cord” … on cable. This new wave of cord cutters is particularly ironic for my parents, who were probably the last people in their town to start subscribing to cable a few years ago. Now, if they want to watch shows like House of Cards or Grace and Frankie Read more […]